Expectations !!!

"Who are you and who am i ? you do your things and i do my things. You are not in this world to live upto my expectations and i am not in this world to live upto u. You are you and i am i. incase if we meet each other, it will be beautiful- Swami vivekananda".
Its true. why should one try to live upto the expectations of another person. Just incase if sumone tries to pretend as if he/she is ready to do everything for you, then you need to be much more careful, for people won't sacrifice their attitude, just for the sake of ur expectation.
Did the britishers leave india because, gandhiji faught with patience. nope, there was nothing more left in this country, other than diseases and plagues.
there is only one person whom u can trust. very easy to find him/her. to just stand before a mirror and say a hello to the most trusted person. If u don't believe urself, then whom are u going to believe.
What is love ? @ 20's sex is love. @ 30's money is love @ 40's and 50's peace is love, and @ 60's to be alone is love.
now if u try to be alone, i mean never depend on anyone for anything, you needn't be hunting for love money and peace.
Time and tide waits for none. its now or never. by the time u finish reading the scrap wat i have written, you might have missed so many things. ex. a phone call to ur friend, whom u forgot to call for a long time, a beautiful young lady wearing a hot dress just passed beside you, sumone hiting a crucial boundary in a cricket match, your coffee getting colder by -1 degree centigrade.a mail which has just arrived and require ur immediate reply. You've a missed call/sms.

Expectations are those which cannot be fulfilled to the full. Experiences are a good example of how we often let our expectations turn into disappointment, creating that roller coaster effect. I?ve heard people say before that life is full of disappointment, get used to it.? But thats not the lesson we should learn. Thats a cynical view of life and is not helpful to bringing us more joy and peace in life. Life sucks and then you die,? is not a happy view on life. The lesson is that yes, we can be disappointed but there is a bigger picture. There is much more to be seen in every situation. We can curb some of our expectations and anticipation, and we might not be so disappointed when we actually experience the event, but we also can keep in mind that there are many other great things about life and other experiences surrounding the experience. There are other people involved and other experiences within experiences. How we react to one of those experiences is important. Sure I was disappointed because my expectations were built up, but it was only for a moment and I was happy I had these experiences. We are human beings and have emotions for a reason. I have long given up trying to resist my emotions. I also believe that suppressing them is not the answer either. When I experience things like this, I know I'm alive and well. (Idon't cry during the emotionally charged scenes in movies.) Being sad and disappointed and afraid are also normal, especially when faced with losing a person or animal that we love. We can let it happen, but also learn to develop a greater picture of life and see the other good things in life.